I've been going out with my girlfriend for a year and nine months. The problem that we have is that we quarrel almost all the time over simple things and this is slowly reducing the Love we have for each other. I respect her so much and I'm seeing that she isn't. I Love her so much but this thing has gone too far and even making me change my mind over marrying her. I'm a cool guy who doesn't like to talk too much and she is the direct opposite of me, coz she talks loudly whenever we fight and she reaches a point of even shouting at me. Which is something I don't like. I seriously feel I should leave her because I don’t want to have a terrible marriage, but I love her so much. What should I do?
Lammy.
Dear Lammy,
You should have a serious talk with your girlfriend; try to make her see your pint of view of the problem. Tell her exactly how you feel, and show her that you are not going to let go of her easily, but she has to change a bit. You know, love and marriage are about respect and compromise.
Wish you all the luck.
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well wat can i say my uncle's just had a stroke, one of my favorite teachers in the world just died of cancer, my auntie is really sick my boyfriend says he loves me i think he does but i also have a feeling he's cheating on me and he's acting wierd plus hes like my first love and im risking everything to be with him oh and im just soo stressed of exams and im feeling depressed..can things get any worser??? hope i can pull through it
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im a married since 2 months and im very happy with my husband, i know him since one year and one month, we get married in 7 months, and we are really happy to be together cause the life after marriage is really different and feeling are more and more strong, ur letter remind me the quarrel that i had with my husband before our marriage we fighted a lot and we would stop our relation for a lot of time, but elhamdou ellah we dident cause our love is strong and also cause we fighted only for stupid things "like u and ur girlfriend" but since we r married everything change, we stooped fighting and we r very happy to be together so if ur love is true and deep, dont worry u will not have a terrible marriage, ur life will be full of love happiness joy and gladness, so be sure about ur feeling and her feeling, and then the best is for u