Question:
I don't know what to say, I don't know what to do, and I’m falling apart without letting her know. We are such close friends but the problem is that she has a boyfriend. I love her but also I want her to be happy even if that means not being with me so if you can give me a way to forget my love or a way to make her share my feelings.
"AdOnIsS"
Answer:
Dear "AdOnIsS",
I think it is very sweet what you said about wanting happiness for this girl no matter what that meant.
If this girl is happy with her boyfriend, then you have to withdraw and leave things as they are. Now, if she isn’t happy with her boyfriend, then you have a big chance of coming into her life “if” she lets you in! Remember, it is her choice, her life and she takes the decisions.
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AWWWWW thats sweet, but at the end of the day as u sed if u love sum1 u want them 2 b happy as that is wat will make u happy, and therefore if she loves sum1 else u will need to leave her to it and just get on with life. After all theres plenty more fish inda sea, and she may not be the most suitable person to be with as u will always have the doubt whether she really loved u or her previous bf. take care and gud luck. life aint easy as a teenager but it goes on! hehe!
Well, that is a very sad story to love someone and not to be with that someone. It is very hard to forget that beloved person as well.
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Hey i was just wondering how to submit questions about issues becuase like the person "falling apart without letting her know," i'm in an almost similar situation and would like some insight. So if someone could tell me how to submit questions that would be great, Thanks
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AWWWWW.that is so sweet. and the same thing is happening to me! You are not alone there arelots of other people with the same feelings.
Fore everyone who love someone and the one loves someone else and so on... I recommend listening to Gabber, NoiceCore and espetially SpeedCore. It helps!!! Espetially if you have a 1.5KW amplifier and some reasonable speakers. Also, just to poin out: Nature is as rediculous as it gets. You love someone and in 99% of the times they have a boy/girl friend, or love your best frined. Or your best friend is their boy/girl frind. And it usually goes in triangles. And even if by chance (which is as insignificat as the numer of elemantary particles in the sun compared to the number times a meteor hits you on the head in a signle day) The case is bidirectional, it wont last more than 2.5 years by best, more than half of which will be wasted in wondering and else misuse of time like someone wating for the other one to act. And whats the use of love anyway. It has no point in evolution and survival of the fittest. And the human seems to be the only spicies that experiences it.
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my hypothalamus says that im in love with this guy. i've known him for 6 months. Hes nice to me, he's smart. were dating every week. we're intimate everytime were together.
i find my self thinking about him, from the moment i oppened my eyes and hes the last thought in my mind before i go to sleep. Im planning to tell him what i feel...I do love him... please help me... how can i tell him how i feel about him?