Question:

I went out this summer with a guy. First I took our relation for passing time and especially that he lives in a foreign country and comes here just in the summer holidays.
But with time loving him grew in my heart. Now he is in France and I am sitting here in Tunisia thinking of him. He doesn’t call anybody here not his best friends or even me. I really miss him but I think that he doesn't really care because if I don't call him, he never does. He says that he doesn't call even his family here and it's true but I want him to show me that I exist for him. This summer he will come and I don't know what to do. Have I got to ignore him? I can't forgive him for not calling me. I told him to end our relationship but he is insisting and honestly I don't know why. Maybe he wants someone with whom he can spend summer her in Tunisia. I am really suffering. Please help me and tell me what to do!

Linda

Answer:

Dear Linda,
You don’t have to suffer, because this is a common problem and it is really simple to solve.
If you would really like to spend summer with him, then forget about him not calling you and just go with the flow. If you really are annoyed, then you should make it clear that you want the relationship to end and that is that!
I just want to make something clear, a summer fling is just a fling, don’t take things too seriously Linda.