Question:
I like this guy at school; he is my friend. But I like him so much that I want to tell him I like him but don’t know how.
He might already know but he doesn't “like” me and he is only being polite by not saying anything! What should i do?
Please help!
Dory
Answer:
Dear Dory,
Well, if you are totally sure that he doesn’t like you the way you want, then don’t embarrass yourself by throwing yourself at him, and try to be content by your friendship. If things turn out to be a bit different; there is hope for a deeper relationship between you two, then take the risk and go for it!
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dear dory.
if u feel u r in a 1 sided relationship then its not so smart to fall deep in this .. it will waste u'r time ... a time u could be finding someone who really likes u in. anyway just be u'rself... if he likes u for who you are .. then its great .. if he doesn't .. just let it go...because it means fate has begger plans for u .. and they r yet to come..
Zaid
-Jordan-
i think that you should act strong:P u are always going to like him and the way by making him like u is by giving him roses, gifts and that stuff, know you can do it!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
aziz
Dear Dory,
u have to make sure that he loves u before u throw ur deep feelings at him and in the end u will be left with a broken heart..u should know how he feels about u by the way he acts and expresses his emotions to u..let him be the first to say i like u thats the way it should be
Dear Dory,
Sweetie I hope you read this and I'm not too late...I was in your exact situation 3 years ago and I knew that if I didn't take the chance I would never know what could have been...I thought he didn't like me. I took a chance, told him I like him and that I just want him to give me a chance and get to know me...and know we're married!!! If you want to email me...do so and we can talk more. jfa@gawab.com I believe you shoujld go for it...you just need to tell him to give you a chance...he will respect your guts.
Dear Dory..
i agree with the answer... if he doesnt like u then u shouldnt like him.... like someone who likes u
Dear Dory
:
first i want to know ur age.. bec i have a friend that has faced the same solution
and if u tell me then i could help and u and give u the solution as fast as i could
MOve ON!! *Rolling my Eyes*
Hey... you should ask him if he likes you! I mean what do you have to lose? He's your friend right? well if so he wouldn't care for you to ask. Soif he says no yall will still be friends and if not..... just do what you think is best it will all work out for you in the end! Put your faith in God! he knows what's for the best! I hope you find out what to do! no one can make the dessison for you we can only help you! Make the best dession! hey and who knows in so many years from now yall could be getting marred!!!! well i hope you figuer this all out! sorry so long! Hey but try and let him make the first move! Just drop some hints! Get some one to talk to him! but don't let them ask him out for you or nothing just talk! hey and you can also talk to him to! i got the same problem and it worked out for me just fine! Oh yea and if you are under 15 you shouldn't worry about it! <3 Leslee
Hey and im sorry if soime of the words are not spelled right i was i a big hurry! <3 Leslee
Don't worry the right guy will soon came and you wont care about your friend. I mean i like my best male friend, but i am giving hints that i like him. So dont worry ok and nothing will happen just ask him who he likes and if he doesnt tell you that might mean he likes you!!!
dear dory,
DON'T FEEL BAD JUST MOVE ON LIKE I DID!!! YOU WILL GET OVER IT SOON!!!! OK OK OK OK!!!!!!!!!
hi dorry well im 13 and in love but how do i now he wants to ask me out but theres one problem .my friend likes him still after shes broken up with him .what do i do i love him???????????? help girl_forever_21@yahoo.com
bye
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------------yessica
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what to do, what to do?!?!?!?!?!
------------yessica
dorry,
I dont think you should cross the line between friend and potential boyfriend. It makes the situation so complex and you dont need to feel pressure for a guy.
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