dear exploder

1st relax...take it easy..
2nd... who told u it was easy for a guy to tell a girl he likes her???!!!!!.. i am a guy and believe me..ITS HARD... if a girl told me she liked me i wont bite her or anything.. but also being turned down is hard..so like u were adviced try being friends with him... its easy if u have a social kind of personality..myself i try being funny...funny people make alot of friends.
if the guy likes you.. it would be easy to sense that... it would be obvious in the way he talks to u and reacts to what u say.... and when the right moment comes... u could tell him i guess.
u'd never know what might happen .... and it is perfectly normal if he wants u just as a friend..that shouldn't bother u. friendship is great..even u might think its better to be friends.
what i'm trying to say is:
be friends with him to get to know how he is..how he thinks ... how he feels before u do anything stupid :D

i hope i was of any help

Zaid

From my point of view, you can’t really say that you are in love with this guy, it could be just an attraction and been attracted by somebody makes a lot of people confused if there in love or not, and that is why I suggest to have a courage and try to hang out with him more often with out your girlfriend, that way he will know you better too & he will be more comfortable with you and likes to talk to you when ever he see you just like he does with your girl friend. I am sure if you give it time he will be the one who say I love you & not you, you have to be smart and make sure do not show him that you are crazy about him other ways he will never look at you or talk to you specially you guys still young in the high school and the environment does not help to get it your way because the boys are still very young and they don’t really care most of the time. I wish you good luck.

i love a guy,and i can do what ever he ask me to do,we are in love since school,know we are togather for 6 years some times i feel that he loves, and somtimes i feel that am nothing for him,but the big problem is he cant trust me at all most of the times we keep fighting,i really would like to know what to do to make trust me,cause really he is my everything...

Dear Friend,

I will just tell you few words and am not gonna talk much.

Life is risky in every single aspect, if we don't take the risk as soon as we are ready for it, one day it might be TOO LATE!!.

I am a guy and what is happining with you, has happened to a girl, i knew, with me. She told me that she loved me but that was after i got with someone else! then she discovered that it was TOO LATE! it would make a big difference if she told me before.

Good luck and if you tell him and he doesn't respond, it's not gonna be the end of the world! there is more in life than just one person regardless how much you love him.

Cheers.
Waleed

Well.. i dont know if anyone is readin this anymore but i just came across this website and saw the first problem a gilr was having. I totally understand ur situation and i dont believe that there is anything in the world that is worth morer than ur life( even if u think different). I want to share my situation with you and show you that there is always a positive side to any situation. When i was in grade ten i had this dream of a boy who i knew OF. i never talked to him and he never knew i exsisted. After that dream i looked in my yearbook and i found his picture and decided that i LIKED THAT GUY!. As weird as it was for me and as much as i wanted to share this info with my best friend. I DIDNT! I waited around and in the summer i kina forgot about him but as soon as i came back to school all the feeling came back and i knew i couldnt hold them in any longer so i told my guy friend. I told him to tell the guy that i liked in not a straight forward way that i like him. At first there was not action from my dream guys side so i started thinking that he doesnt like me or that he still doesnt know. over the days i became impatient and started to think if i should tell him myself but even thinkin bout that gave me MAD butterflies. SO i decided to tell my friends, and of course they told him and i knew for sure that he knows.Yet he didnt do anything about it. I didnt know what to think:O(. I also told my friends that i am thinkin bout asking him out myself but they were AGAINST it. To say the truth i didnt know how i felt about it either because i was REJECTED by a guy before.( Imagine that ) But see it wasnt the end of the world and i m still livin my life. So anyways the day that i deciced to go ask him someone was always around him and when i got close to him from the back i had HUGE butterflies that i couldnt even open my mouth and say someting. Eventually he walked away and never saw me ( thank GOD):O) The next week i sent him a halloween o gram and i didnt expect to get anything in return because i was so sure in myself i was ready to ASK HIM OUT! my firned were still against. The next day i actually recived something back but it didnt have a name so i wasnt sure. So i went up to him at lunch and to my surprise i didnt have any butterflies. I told him that i didnt wanna go around the subject so i just asked him if he wants to chill sometime and in my mind i already had a speech if he said no. Surprisingly he said YES! teh next day we went on our first date and we're still togetehr untill this day next month its going to be a year and a half. ALL I COULD SAY TO U IS TAKE RISKS THATS WHAT THIS LIFE IS ALL ABOUT! AND WHO IS URBESTFRIEND?????? JUST THINK TO URSELF : My name is ______ and there is nobody in teh world better than ME! The only way u could get through in this life and succeed is if u r optimistic!!!!!! GooD LUCK!!!even though i know u wont need it ;)