Hi, My best friend and i met about 7 years ago and we still together now, i love her very much she's my other half when i feel sad i just see her or call her then i feel good. But the main problem is i don't feel that she loves me as she did before year by year i feel that she is far from me.. now i cry a lot because i can't forget all the wonderful memories, in the past we were togeher and now no. I tried many times to be as we were in the past -2 sisters- i found it difficult. Please help me.
Zozo
Answer:
Dear Zozo,
Your problem is common, many young girls and boys for that matter, make friends from childhood, but the thing is, sometimes as they grow, their interests change, and each has her/his own life to go through, which brings them apart.
Talk to your friend and see what exactly is the problem, maybe there isnt one at all. Maybe she just doesnt notice because she has lots on her mind and has different interests now.
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gosh Zozo i have exactly the same problem except i was bestfriends with my friend from since we were born and now we drifted apart i cry too except i dont know wat to do but we're still friends now but not as much as before its so sad
omg zozo and hindawdaw i also have the same problem i wish u gusy can help me 2.
i dont know whats wrong i cant even give my own self advice the exat same problem zozo exact .
can any1 else hekp me 2??????
hello everyone, i was in the same place your are now. me and my friend became best friends for 4 years now. but we drifted much apart, i felt her changing, she is not my other me anymore. i did my best to change this and my advice to all of you is that u do too, talk to the other partie stay there for him/her, but if you found a dead end i advice you to find what completes you within you within you, find what substitutes your love to that person and don't count on their existance as you did before, cause if they really gave you out they are not worth buying. but if not don't ever do that jusb be patient cause life is ups and downs and if she/he really loves you they will come back to you so always do your duty and don't give that up.
remember some times it is the best solution to let things go for them to come back to you.
Good luck all
Dear all,
You have to understand that life is life....This the way it goes. People change & grow up to be with different ideas,manners & even personality. Do not judge your best friends...Just be the same with them & they will know some day that u r the true friend they have. The best thing in the world is "Friendship". It is always without strains, without waiting any thing in return.
Good luck,
taggy
Taggy, that is it to the letter. we all lose friends at some points in our lives. The idea is not to attach blame to that loss. instead be thankful that you have experienced a loving friendship that was rewarding at some point in your life. accept it and move on and look at how you can positively impact someone else's life. Don't look for a selfish friendship. Be happy, do good for its own sake and who knows your old friends might notice the new bounce in your step and will come to you again. Minimum fuss and headache and most importantly u grow as an individual in your own social arena. Its an opportunity to expand yourself, you are defined by you; not by your friendships.
have courage my friends.
Claire.