I want to move me and my 13 year old daughter in with my boyfriend, but he won't let us put any of our furniture out, or let me hang any of my pictures or put my nick-nacks around. He says it's his house and if he didn't like HIS stuff he would have gotten rid of it.
Now he won't even let me bring up anything about moving in. I want to make plans and fix up the room to be my daughters, he insists he wants us there, or "he would have told us not to come" but I feel like he's trying to control us. I have to give notice at my apartment in a month and I don't know what to do.
Lucy
Answer:
Dear Lucy,
Well, there is nothing wrong with moving in with your boyfriend, but I guess there is something wrong when he doesn't want you to move in some of your personal stuff!
The place will be yours just as it is his, and you have to have your own touch! Especially for your daughters room!
I guess you have to have a serious talk with him! and A.S.A.P.
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The idea of no pain no gain does not apply in this situation. Just dont do it. Dont give notice to your old apartment. Give any excuse, like your daughter is settled and u need more time for her to adjust. If things are like this before u move in, do you think they will get any better later. Hell no! You need to think clearly for your sake and your daughter's. Take your time dont be rushed into abad decision. he may insist on you moving in cos he is lonely alone, but he is still attached to his old life. love is far more accommodating than this. Or at least it should be! Be tough, you have an obligation to your daughter!
Claire