Ok, I think that I have fallen in love with this guy. I constantly think of him... I write his name out subcontiously all the time... and i really want to tell him how i feel.. the only thing is that we are friends.
We arent REALLY good friends but we are friends.. and i see him every single day (and would still have to no matter what) i really dont want to ruin our friendship because i dont know if he likes me or not (he is also 2 years older) im really stuck here.. what should i do?
Klet
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Dear klet,
Well, I really think that if you two arent good friends then it wouldnt work out great as borre than friends!
Maybe you should try to better your freindship with him, then move on to a second level... that would give you a better perspective on how the guy is, and you might be more courageous in asking him about what he feels as well !
Work on your friendship first, then see where that takes you.
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Dear CLET,
First of all,I would like to incourage you for declaring your personal experience over here ,
I think that you need to improve your friendchip with him make it stronger let him be involved into your life your stady your personal issues,this way he will get intrested to you more than you imagine.
Please, don`t try to let him know that you are falling in love with him, this way you will distroy this relation ,you can make him feel that you are intrested to his life as knowing his hobbies,getting along with the friends that he likes the most ...
the only way to seduce a guy is to make him feel he is so important to you but witout saying the word I love you.
I wish you all the best & good luck.
Hey!!
Well In my opinion you shouldn't keep it for yourself, you have to tell him soon or later.. But you said you both aint good friends so the best thing to do is to become close friends and after that you will know what he feel for you.. Take it slowly don't rush, if you rush you might ruin the relationship. Love is hard I know that but sometiems we have to keep the love for a person insdie of ourself before we tell them. If you tell him without knowing what he feels for you will be a big mistake.. beocme a close friend to him and soon or later you will if he also like you back. Don't act to perfect infront of him, be yourself. If oyu act to perfect infront of him you will seem fake.. take it easy show him who you are and he will show you who he is.. Good luck hun!!
hey clet:
The bigger deal u make out of it the harder it will become, lets deal with probabilities here:
1- he can say he loves u 2 and u continue ur relationship as lovers.
2- he says he doesnt love u and u r no more than a friend 2 him, so!!? How bad could that be, he doesnt deserve 2 have u and u go ur separate paths.
dont be obsessed by it and life goes on
goodluck:D