Question:
My family wanted me to marry this guy that they know. At first i didn't like the idea, then he started sending me emails and then phone calls and i really liked him a lot but once we met it was different. I dont know, my heart told me he is not the one and the problem is he thinks i want to marry him as well as my family.
What can i do about it ? I'm so confused now.
Karina
Answer:
Dear Karina,
You should know exactly what your hearts feels, if you dont love the guy, dont marry him ! Just make this very clear to him and to your family and i am sure that if they love you, they will understand. I dont think they would want their daughter to be unhappy !
comments
listen dear,according to my experience,what i can say is : give him another chance,if he changes you shall win him but if he didn't just tell him the truth and don't panic,be natural and honest,it's your life and your happiness,do what you think it's right and what makes you fell comfortable and satisfied.pray for me.
Dear Karina,
I know your confused and you cant make the right the decision , you have to go out with him a couple of times to get to know him better, if you felt you dont like him then tell him and if you felt comfortable with him then u should keep going out with him. I know a lot of couples who got married without love , they felt comfortable with each other, and now they love each other and they are a happy couple.
if i were in your place i will not marrey this guy i must know my feeling good
hi Karina
I think that the only person who has the right 2 decide is u
Don't use ur heart, use ur mind
if u say that u felt differently after u met drop the idea & tell him that u'r not interested in him that's it
u r the one who should decide not ur mom nor ur dad
remember that the only thing they want is for u 2 b happy believe me
I'm a man but I tell u if u'r under 25 years old, under 23 let's say don't marry him
live ur life
meet other people
u'r lebanese (I think) & u know where 2 meet good decent men
so take this chance, drop the guy & move on with ur life
bye
Hi...i just wnted to give u my opinion if ur are not sure that this guy is the one then i;advice never never marry him.
Im sure ur family loves u and will understand ur fealing and ur opinion about this guy
good luck:)
I think that if u were comfortable for the first time then that's when u go for it, but as long as u didn't feel comfortable when u sat with him then ur feelings wont change for the second time.. believe me i've been through this:)