Our life was great … we spent 10 years together which were as beautiful as can be. Studied together, worked together and lived together … through out all these years we were so much in love, life wasn’t perfect and I thought nothing could get between us ...
Love or Illusion ... A True Story
It was about time that we decided to get married, we did and we had a most wonderful wedding. It was small and quiet, but to us it was perfect.
The days passed by and we lived a normal married life that was calm but full of work.
Slowly our life changed, our relation started to lack the intimacy that it had and we started to drift apart …
I tried my best to keep our relationship as it is; I tried to better it … but it was no use. One day, out of the blue, my husband packed his things and walked out the door … Were did he go? Why did he just leave like that?
We got divorced, he had stopped loving me and had fallen in love with another woman, he left to live with her … and I was alone …
I wonder, were all those past years full of love or just an illusion …
This is a true story, and I think it is very sad that such a thing could happen. Those two people were so sweet, so much in love … but what happened?
What do you think happened?
If you were in this woman's place, what would you do?
that is really sad, but maybe u did something that made him leave the house,or maybe he is not a good person thats why he left and went to the other woman.i dont know but i feel really sorry for you.
i think that some ppl jst walk away without a reason maybe he felt that he loved 4 sth but it turned out that u dont have this thing or maybe he is jst a bad person and im rly sry 4 wt hpnd to u
Hey, Im sorry to hear about what happened it is really sad... but you should ask your self if you did something that might of made him change towards you and turn to another woman, if there is nothing than he Did even DESERVE YOU .. and you deserve some one that will love you FOREVER!!!
Hope you all the best...
will u never really know what really happend maybe somhow he was talkin to her and she told him somthin about u brain washed him or somthin i dont think he just left like that no one just leves there must be a reason .....on the other hand i feel bad for u but who ever leves u for somone els even tho its sade but u should do your best not to feel bad about it becouse the more u think about it the more it will hurt u ..........have a good day avryone
Hello,
I hear such stories day in and day out. The truth is that (as most people have said) you ahouldnt think about it or feel sad because he is not worth it. Life is full of ups and downs and its not ur fault, thats just the way life is. I beleive you should carry on with your own life, build an even stronger career think about something else that will keep you occupied and not bother with imbosels like your ex husband.
iF he can throw away a perfectly respectable and loving relationship and marriage just for the sake of another woman then he isnt even worth thinking about coz he clearly didnt think about u wen he did the disaster he has done!
Just like he walked out on u, he will either walk out on his new wife or she will walk out on him! coz what goes round comes round!
For the meantime if that was me in her position i wouldnt revolve my life around someone as insignificant as her ex husband and id revolve my life around positive things that will benefit me (eg my work, my family (parents,sisters children?) surround yourself with positive things and you will become a positive person and who noes you mite be able to find new 'TRUE LOVE' else where! move on hun dont get held back!
woow..agony aunt..i agree with u..wise words :D
i fnk mayb marriage wasnt for u guys...sum ppl r more comfotable wen they can c an easy way out if u no wot i mean..he mite jus b affraid of commintment...n u never no wot he mite b thinkin, he mite feel guilty or sumink...i cnt say..dont wory bout it..coz getin a divorce is a big deal...but like agony aunt sed..i fnk u should move on..u cant jus pause ur life..cuz of sumfng u cnt change... :D :D its really sad tho :S but i fnk it was love..love isnt everlasting..it can fade..it happens alot :D :D but mayb da love just werent strong enough....i duno...i aint reali great wid dee fngs
it sad to hear such a story but i think the problem with women is that they think to much and then convince themselves its their fault that it never true, it can never be one persons fault its alwayz both u cant light a flame with only oil... get me... anywaiiz him leaving makes him a jerk because wen some1 leaves a relationship like a marriage just like that its saying i want to run away and i dont want to face the issue and men are known for those things , i think the main problem was that the problem was already there but the two chose to denie it or ignore it and i think he is a sleazes because u dont just leave a women for another in one day he must have been cheating on u before i know this is sad to say but i really think its true and i also think u should forget and move on as u said u tried to keep the relationship but it did not last so that means u have done ur half its his loss if he left u and u should move on with life and stop asking urself what happened and stuff like that because it will only make u think more about it.
the best of luck for the future
Simple MEN SUCK big time.