Hi, I wanna tell you that my best friend is so adorable and I really really love him but I don’t know how to tell him!!!!
He's my best friend at Uni and we've been friends ever since high school. I've seen many boys and he's been with many girls. We've always talked about boyfriends and girlfriends but I just love him and I'm afraid to tell him coz we might loose each other! I don’t wanna ruin our relationship.
What can I do?
Help!
Sweet_Susi85
Answer:
Well Sweet_Susi85, what can I say except that you have a wonderful relationship with this guy. I understand your concern about telling him but I suspect he may be thinking the same thing you are! Let's explore your options:
A) Play It Safe: Your stay the way you are and do not tell him how you feel at all. This means you will remain close friends and you'll have to watch him going in and out with other girls while that could be you!!!
B) No Guts, No Glory: Raise the flag of love over speculation, give it a heroic try! What if he feels the same about you but couldn't tell you? Things might turn out just great!
All in all, don't pass up a chance to let someone know you love him, even if
there may be sacrifices. You may loose that chance and he'll end up with someone else. And if it doesn't work out, then it was never meant to be!
Life is a box of chocolates, eat them before they melt!
comments
my best friend is a girl and i dont make friends with boys becz i hate this!!
i think if she really loves him she should tell him because she cant just stay like that and she never knows he might like her back...but if he didnt like you, they say its hard to be friends with someone after u break up..but that is not exactly true it can happen yes but u can always be friendsi know because it happened to me.. so u can still be friends.. or maybe u could try flirting with him a little bit make him like u too so he wont take wat u'll tell him as a big surprise...
well
ya ur right,take the chance
but in the end none of us can judge its u!
u know how he thinks and u know how he will react
so just like try to know whom he likes and so
then when u know u'll decide but believe me as an advice friendship relations are much much much stronger
if he loves u too then maybe after u get together smth might happen and u might lose each other forever!!!!!!
take care(L)
choose a good timing and give him a gift , a different type of gift , a special one, then wait for his reaction ...
you also might want to try to give him a kiss on cheeks when he's done something for you , a kiss with a thankyou .. then wait for reaction