I've known my best mate for about 5 years now, the trouble is that I’m hopelessly and head over heels in love with her. She has no idea how i feel as i don’t want to ruin our friendship, i can’t even have a proper relationship now because all i think about is her, and lately she seems to have been avoiding me, she’s been going out with different people and not bothering to ring or txt me when I’ve rang her, we barely meet any more as well is that some kind of sign? And what shall i tell her?

Rich

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Whether you are single or part of a couple, you have to take the right steps to make your life full and happy … here are some tips and advices that are easy to follow …

If you are single:

Take time alone: Try to develop parts of yourself that you couldn’t if you were part of a couple. Try to make time for yourself, where you can know yourself better and overcome any fear or insecurity on your own sweet time.

Connect with people in groups: Socializing is very important, and so are close friendships. Try going regularly to a club, where you can take dancing lessons or aerobics with multiple partners, which makes your social status unimportant … be one with everybody...

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I am already married but I have deeply fallen in love with someone else. I can sense that he is my soul mate, who I have been searching for. I want to grow old with him. On the other hand, I don't love my husband anymore (assuming it was love at the very beginning). I want to be free.
What should I do?

SM

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My story started by the end of February 2004. I called the company I usually buy phone cards to call back home. I have talked few times with the manager who was very sweet to me, I noticed that he had a khaleejy accent.But that day "end of Feb" the manager was joking with me, I asked him from where he was exactly from he said frm Emarate, I started joking with him with the Emarate accent, he laughed so hard. He took my cell number, but I've never thought he will call me back, since I was just joking, and it wasn't the first time...

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I've had a crush on him since I was a little girl. Since I came here in California, I just couldn?t forget about him. So, I went home to the Philippines on June 29 and when I got there, I saw him and we went to Baguio together. It all started there. I fell for him and he fell for me. We've been talking, and to be honest something already happened to us. I know, it?s really bad. But what can I do? I love him so much.

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I'm a junior in college and grew up doing theater. This great friend of mine Jessica was my theatrical opposite quite a bit in high school, and thus we developed a good friendship. I've always wanted to date her, but it's never been the right time. I've just transferred to Athens, where she lives, for UGA and we got together with other friends last night. At a bar she told Stacey, other friend, that she wanted me to buy her a drink and I did of course. We flirt and then her boyfriend shows up.

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I know this guy from work and he has been so nice to me and has ask me out once.

When he talks to me he blushes, when he do things in front of me his hand shakes.
I treat him like I treat my other co-workers.
I hadn't thought of it at all, until several of my co-workers told me, "he likes you!".

When I was so sick a couple weeks back, he took me out to buy food and had been
spoiling me by driving me home after work.

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Some women always bemoan the fact that somewhere along the way they’ve lost the “romance” in their married life. What with having the kids, keeping a job and other temptations that somehow seem to invade a happy couple’s togetherness, keeping the romance alive is a test.

So, are you one of those women who just give up and file their divorce papers or do you have the fighting spirit to give it a go “till death do us part”? Here are some tips that can help:

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It’s always an issue when we hear a woman has had a somewhat unconventional past. Either she’s had numerous love affairs or had been a woman of trade or did other things regular women won’t be caught doing. Sometimes blame can’t be assigned to the woman alone, we also have to see the circumstances that compelled her to do these things.

Let’s put it this way, all men and women are sinners. Can’t change that but we are all given a chance to make right what we’ve done wrong. So, it’s not exclusive to the men. If it was a guy who cheated or had lots of girlfriends, people tend to see this as part of being a man. No, polygamy is not inherent, it’s by choice. Who agrees with me?

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I've known a guy since we were 11 - we were classmates - and we are now almost 20. He liked me in 7th grade but it was a kids' thing and we dated for 3 days, however, I know I hurt him. I always felt attracted but I was after other guys.

All these years we've been going out with our old classmates and doing things together and we always had a connection although he never really opens up.

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I am a married man having an affair with another married lady, who is a friend of my wife. For about 3 months we carried this affair and suddenly she backed off saying she received a daily devotion message which prevented her to have any affair. She is a subscriber to a christian site and gets daily devotion and has lots of belief in God.

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What should I do when a guy is so obsessed and he loves me so much?

Kathy