My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months. I met him in college, he was my classmate. at the time we met, i already had a BF but our relationship was on the break.
Now we're together, but he's soon going to leave and go back home because he's finished his studies!
I'll also finish in January, which means we'll surely go our separate ways!
I feel so sad ... this is the end! I won't be able to meet him again.
He told me to take it easy and just let things be. Easier said than done!
How can i let it all go so easily? I love him!

Nella

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My life is perfect in every single way, except when it comes to love!
Two years ago when I just got to high-school, I met a girl. I liked her so much but I began to act weird in front of her! Sometimes I was even a big idiot. This way she never got to know the real me. However, she didn't act strange at all. She was her normal self, which is so awesome. I'm in love with her.
I later felt so bad I got to a point that I just walked across the house, back and forth thinking about her, about how awesome she is, and how stupid it was of me to act so odd every time she was around! I even refused 5 girls that were in love with me, since I knew they couldn't replace her! Therefore, I can't be complete without her.

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I'm crazy in love with my colleague, but she has a boyfriend! She likes me as a friend! She always ask support from me and says sweet things to me. I just can't take it anymore! I changed my job! Spent a year trying not to think about her! Threw away all possibilities to contact her. People asked me to love someone else! I failed!
One day i came across her while driving! That was when everything came back to me and i felt this strange thing in the stomach! Then she contacted me ! I tried to be severe by rejecting her! I failed! She's experiencing a difficult period so I'm back to supporting her for the last 9 months through messenger even though we are in the same city! I always refuse to contact her because I love her and don't want to hurt her! But I love her and she likes me as a friend. I wish I can be a friend but I love her and just can't forget her!! Help me I'm in a bad mood!!

FedUp

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One of our readers, Shadia, has sent in a critical question, asking what to do in her difficult case.
She's a Muslim and she's in love with a Christian. She asks what she can do to be with him?

Well, Shadia ... I'm not going to sugar coat the answer for you because this is serious.
In Islam, a man can marry a woman not from his religion, but a woman is not allowed to do the same.
If you want details, it'll take a very long time, but in short, you can't marry a Christian because your kids will follow their dad's religion! Simple and straight forward.

I love my classmate to death and i have a feeling that he loves me too.
I always spot him looking at me and smiling in a lovely way, but he haven't told me yet if he loves me or not. I'm sure he knows that i love him.
What can i do to have him and to be with him? Because of our culture i cant tell him directly that i love him, but he is always on my mind.
What should i do to have love relation with him???

yasna

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I'm a 25-year-old married lady. I never dated before getting married and i've never really fallen in love, well maybe once!
I love my husband but i can't forget my past love .. I regret that i couldn't break the chains and just love and be loved .. now it's too late .. I'm married and he's engaged!!!

Deema

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I have been best friends with a guy for almost 4 years now. I love him to death and i know that i can't live without him. I've tried.
When we first met, we grew on each other fast. We both secretly had something for each other. I told him i liked him and he said he didn't see me like that and didn't want to mess up our friendship. He later came to confess that he had always had feeling for me and that if we would have tried it out we would have been together. Nothing happened for about 6 months. Then i had my first real kiss and it was with him!
June through January we had something, we were best friends and a bit more.

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I've been talking with this guy that i met online on and off now for about a few years.
He's been trying to get me to meet him, but I've been hesitant about it because of insecurities. Well, we just started talking again and he tells me that he wants to get married and have children with me and that he's ready to get our relationship started. I'm ready to
see him now, but it worries me because he doesn't really call me. I'm the one who has to contact him!
I've confronted him about the situation and he apologizes but never seems to do what he says he's going to do. Why does he tell me that he likes me and cares about me and then ignores me? Why lead me on? Should i forget about him and move on?

Chandra

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I just recently got married (2 months ago) and my husband says he loves me and he buys me stuff all the time but he hardly ever kisses me or holds me or hugs me, he hardly shows me affection!

What does this mean?

Sara

I have the most amazing friend in the world. She has helped me in my life like no other person. Let me first start with our history. We met at work almost 8 years ago. She approached me which was such a surprise. We immediately clicked. Then I found out that she was engaged. No big deal but I did let her know my feelings up front and that her happiness was what was most important to me. After 6 years she has gotten a divorce and i have been the step by step. There isn't a thing that we don’t know about each other and her family loves me as I do them. We spend some holidays together and talk on a daily basis.

I have never had my chance to try and date her cause she says now that she does not see me in that way but when i have someone else that take time from us it makes her jealous. It seems she wants me there but not totally. I am so confused with the situation that i am miserable on a daily basis. I have as some people for advice and even tried reading some articles but it seems they all say that i need to walk away from the situation but how do you walk away from a person that means that much to you. Does it mean our friendship was a lie from the start?

I'm in love with a guy, who is currently studying abroad. We were together for 1 year then we broke up. -that was 7 months ago-
Although i contacted him again and told him exactly how i feel about him and that i've missed him alot, he has a girlfriend now.
I want to get back together with him and i want to marry him!
Our relationship was great, it was fun, we loved each other, we used to see each other and hang out together 6 days a week!
He'll be back in December and i don't know what i should do to get him back!
I'm not sure, does he still love me or has he gotten over me!
He's the one I've been looking for ... i don't want to let him go!

By Victoria

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My BF is in a military school. He never calls me or emails me. He asked me to wait for him, but I didn't expect to be placed in a closet & be forgotten about. I know he is very busy, but I don't know what to do. I truly am in love with this guy & I feel he feels the same. We liked each other for 2 years before he asked me out, then 30 days later his parents sent him away.
We knew it was going to happen. I just don't understand why ?? he doesn't email me. His excuse is he is 2 busy w/ school which may be true. I wanted to go with him to his homecoming but he hasn't brought it up. He came home for a 36hr leave but never got to see me, he wanted to relax & sleep. is that normal?

My friends all tell me to forget about him, but I can't !
During the last 2 years I had a few BF's, none of them made me happy inside. He does... He has never had a GF (known fact) he said its because he has been in love w/me for the last 2 yrs.

What can I do am I over reacting? help !!

By Brittney

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I'm in love with a guy, who is currently furthering his studies abroad. We met when he came on vacation more than one year ago. Everything was so sweet and the relationship was so much fun, even when he got back. The problem started 3 months after he got back. He doesn't call often; his emails are now minimal, stopped calling me on special occasions. He didn't cal me on valentine day, my birthday etc. When I complain, he will give excuses and apologize but it still continues. There was a time when I wanted to end the relationship, but he begged me not do so and yet still he hasn't change.
He also promised to get back to me last July but he didn't come at all. Now I don't know what to do, please help me.

By FM

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I am a very popular student at school, and I try to be nice and sweet to everyone.
I like this football player and i have a feeling that he likes me too.
But the thing is, he already has a girlfriend. She is very ugly and nasty, and i don't like her!
I always spot him looking at me and when I'm with my 'guy' friends, he tries to make me jealous.
I'm not usually shy around guys, but he is the only one i get tongue-tied around!
Help me!

meshoo

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