I haven’t written about all what’s been happening between Rihanna and Chris Brown for the past week because I haven’t found the right words to use! I still haven’t but I have to say something!
The two took a go at reconciliation and even went away together and bunked together at Diddy’s mansion on Miami Beach's Star Island.
The thought of that alone, send shivers down my spine! You might not agree with me, but I can't understand how a smart and talented and very beautiful girl like Rihanna would even think of getting back together with a dude who has laid a hand on her! He’s done more than that, he gave her contusions and a swollen lip and we shouldn’t forget that!
I guess, neither should she!
Last week, her dad said that he’s totally behind her in any decision she makes. I guess he wasn’t expecting that his Riri would go back into the arms of Brown! Today, her family voiced their concern and unhappiness with her undeniably shocking decision.
Today, Chris Brown kinda had to face the music. He went to court and stood before a Los Angeles Superior Court commissioner.
Brown did not enter a plea but the commissioner issued a protective order against the singer, saying: "Mr. Brown, you are not to annoy, harass, molest, threaten or use force or violence against anyone."
Brown is being charged with two felonies – assault and making criminal threats and his fate will be determined on April 6th. If convicted, Brown faces anywhere from probation to a maximum four years and eight months in state prison.
Back to Rihanna, People had an article the other day that contains a statement saying: "experts say, it's unrealistic to expect women not to go back to their abusers, be they husbands or boyfriends, as the victims grapple with feelings of guilt, fear, isolation – even love." You gotta read it, it's VERY interesting. Read it here.
This may explain why Rihanna has taken such a step and is back with Brown! But i still don't get it!
Update:
I just thought of something! Do you think Rihanna should testify against Chris Brown?
She probably confuses Chris's action with he cares about her that much to get that mad. It also has to be such a shock it doesn't process like WTF??? So Rihanna may be trying to deal with it with LOGIC like a logical things happen when that is not the same case.
There's a book every woman should read. I think it's called How to Spot a Dangerous Man sumthin like that.
The thing is the work also has to begin with a woman not in a way that there is something wrong with her. Women are beautiful and want to love. They need to know how to recognize and protect themsevles.
When a woman really GETS that ... she'll know what real love feels like.
I feel bad for her not for him... Now the one to blame is her because she is taking him back... God people like to suffer.. unbelievable! pitty