salam every body, i'm new here and wanted to say hi for you all.. i first read about a topic being comented and dialoged but i got lost looking for it!!
any way it's about what girls want in men? ..
one of the girls as i was told refused the eastern man for being absossive of control while she prefered the western men because they're @easy to dump@ .. i think this just tells us what kind of girl she is ..
another asked what would men want in a girl ..
at first .. i think arab society has so much demolitioed the idea of a relationship between tow people inlove .. unless if it was in secret as most of the relations going on .. which the biggest loser in those will be the girl mostly because she will give and will not get ..exapt words.. and my be worse .. a baby!
while if it was on the open it wouldn't be so dangerouse and immoral .. for me i'd like the honesty in girls (most are full of lies) (no offense) for me an honest girl with an acceptable looks no super beauty and not super ugly .. normal would be better 100 times from a preety lying girl..
for me the feeling (i had once) of holding your love in your arms while your eyes speak your love .. is worth all the looks and other girls in the world..
ofcaurse one of the points i object of in arabic society .. that while girls want their rights and their freedom .. only the man has to suffer the same .. she can go out and shop and hire a servant and a made she would wanna go every where for holidays .. and who's supporting all this ? the ass who's working day and night while snow white is taking care of her make-up and her cloths.. not to please him but her ego..
the man has to pay so much money .. to get engaged .. @5o6beh @ and much more for the wedding .. and more and more for appartment and life expenses and where will @the princess@ want to go .. etc. and when a baby comes .. expenses.. she'll want a maid .. expenses ..
so .. i guess they want every thing .. i wonder what are they complaining about ..
at least women in world who're claiming for their rights have to earn their living !!
that's why a relation with an arab girl with me it will only go 2 direction: 1- western style relation ship 2-pure romance & love no strings attached (the only one i had this way ended tragically because of the arabic traditions .. of not allowing strangers to meet their girls.. and i saw that if i kept seing her in secret she'd given up to me and our love would not be pure any more .. so i ended it and left the whole country which they were in.)
i hope some day an arab girl can change this sight of mine because i'm not happy with it..
but from my experience it is the truth.