I thought and thought about what to write under this title, but I had no idea how long would it take me to write all what I have in mind... I didn’t want to make the topic long, so you guys don't get bored when reading it... So I had an idea, I want each one of you to say whatever it is that comes to your mind when you read it... Here is my point of view..
i agree with u Sarah but sum ppl do really abuse it. for example in islam, u r allowed 2 b frends with the opposite sex but it is not the same freindship wen it is same sex. there r loads of muslim girls that abuse the fact that they can talk 2 boys but they abuse it by acting in a very unappropriate way n they start flirting. this is haram. they just dont no the difference between having same sex friends and different sex friends!
its ok to have friends from the opposite sex, but from my own personal experience, getting to be close friends with a guy ALWAYS ends up in a romantic relationship, which is cool if the guy is compatible.. its nice to fall in love with ur friend.. but if not it can cause heartbreak or fadhe7a :P hahahha
oh my gosh am lonely.tisk tisk
thanks waleg
hmmm i mean its possible to be friends with the opposite sex...but i guess it depends on the community in some places u think this guy is ur friend but the guy dosent see it that way n they just go n say u have a relationship with him,,its stupid but oh well wat can u do.....but really it almost always ends up with problems and one of them ends up with feelings for the other....
I DO BELIEVE THERE COULD BE FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN A GUY AND A GIRL...HOWEVER IT DOESNT MEAN THAT THIS FRIENDSHIP WILL REMAIN A FRIENDSHIP FOR LONG ..EITHER THE FRIENSHIP WILL END OR THE WILL END UP LIKING EACHOTHER AND WATS BETTER THAN FALLING IN LOVE WITH UR FRIEND THAT JUST MAKES LIFE WAYYY EASIER
well yest thats true mimi but wat if the love between u two dosent last forever i mean u might lose a friend then cuz its hard to be friends with someone again after bein in a relatioship it would just be awkard..
its true it would be very awkward as a matter of fact...
i think it iz possible to be friends with the opposite sex, i have many friends which are male and i dont flirt rnd them..i just act normal. i mean i know that some girls want to have male friends and purposly flirt wit em..bt thats jus pointless..i think that unless u go out intentionally wantin to have relationship with the opposite sex then its unlikely u will fall in love.
I think it iz romantic if 2 friends ( each of diff sex im talking bout) fall in love and thats natural, bt if they have bf/gf den thats a prob and thats wen it goes wrong..lol
Yes, it is more then possible to have a friend of the opposite sex. People that think that its bad either deserve to go back to the ice age, or recognize that its not a bad thing. Im pretty sure most will go with the second :P.
of course it's possible
my best friends are guys and we are JUST friends
we don't love love each other or flirt or something we hung around study have fun together and help each other in need
each one of us has his sentimental life but we're FRIENDS!!!
hi i dont think that girls and boys can be friends because it will always lead to and romance like rym and ajdi or maya and wajdi
i think its OK!!! but if it gets any further than friendship then its wrong n not OK.
i think its OK!!! but if it gets any further than friendship then its wrong n not OK.
for me is ok me and my friends are cool. sometimes, one my friend have a new friend. she is very pretty but she keep winking at me when others not there, is very sexual. that girl is really something. i just try to ignore her, for real. so
yes it is not to have different sex cause it might be more than friend and they will have problem with their parents.
to the person in the begining, it is not probriate to have different sex, you dumb. al islamic way al. crap they dont know what Islam is./
*more than friendship
im a bad girl..i mean i used 2 not have many friends but now i took photos of myself in bad way and sent it to male friend also showed this person which liked me my body :S on webcam..its caz im gettin all these desires now though..i know its haram. i swear i would never have done this 2 months ago but reccently im going crazy
oh good god that's crazy./ i hope you're not naked in the photo, they'll think you're amature. and i know is not bussines.
Omg, i have so many guy friends. Why does it matter? Who ever said that just cuz im a girl i HAVE to only have girl friends? Guy friends are better in a lot of ways, they are less drma to be around...less catty bull to deal with. Plus a lot of people mix flirting with just being normal. Ok, what if my girl friend said something funny and i put my hand on her cheek and nudged her face the other way. thats just being me. But if i did that same thing to a guy who said something funny that would be considered flirting in people eyes. Plus, doing something 'flirty' doesnt always mean the people want each other. My friends do flirty things here and there but if you ask if they like each other they say no...
How do you take over a friendship by getting romantically invovled? If your intentions were tto get with them in the first place, the first step is to get to know each toehr and be friends, THEN you start dating or w/e u want. if your friends and then you get with each other, hey, go you. If your already friends and like being around each other n grew up with each other isnt it better than marrying a complete stranger n then finding out how they really are after everythings said n done? you basically get totally screwed.
Only thing is i wouldnt try with someone i know wouldnt work out with, cuz then its awkward and you totally kill a great friendship. Yea. Im done now :D
Much luff
~Adam = <3
PS...For some reason i dont think the 2nd comment by 'me' wasnt really him/her...Yea.
in theory friendship between opposite sexes is fine. practically however it needs a certain frame of mind to work properly. as a teenager i find that all guys my age wud have no interest in innocent friendship and would try to steer it in a different direction.
I have a male friend and he cares for me a lot...and I love him so much even though we still considered friends. It's just beautiful. I think friendship b/w opposite sex are complicated, depend on how people feel for each other. Sometimes they like each other but just no way to move up, so ...stay there b/w unclear boundery b/w friends or lovers...but for sure other case are plainly friendship...as a girl, you know...if that's friendship or love, you even know if that guy cares about you or not...
my girlfriend and i have had so many problems since the 11 months we've been together mostly regarding jealousy. we've both made a couple mistakes with the opposite sex like when we were all drunk at the beach and i crawled on her friend calling her my girls name and she gave this other guy a hickey at her party knowing that HE was not ME! the instances that piss me off the most are when she wrote to 'her friend' in prison that she knew from before vaguely and started chillin with him when he got out... she didn't think there was anything wrong with doing that and he tried to make a move on her at her house. she told me this the next day cuz i saw she was hiding something. there have been a couple other guys that did the same which makes me think that she is definately leading them on intentionally or not and she doesn't think she is she says she's just 'being herself' i don't know if i should put up with it or just get over her because she always has to have these like backup plans with her friends even when shes comin to see me incase we get in a fight she can just call them up and go chill ... i feel betrayed
frendship between b0yz n galz is totally wrong.
I dont agree with u fady